> You have to build real trust, which means you must expose ...

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  "content": "\u003e You have to build real trust, which means you must expose private information over an online system\n\nI've pointed out something close in the article I mentioned: IMO it's possible to achieve a healthy and flexible enough privacy for dating (so people could feel safe to talk to strangers using pseudoanonymous and almost empty npubs, and still not appear as a total stranger/s{p,c}ammer to the system, by exposing the connection between the real trusted npub and the limiting dating one to a trust rank service, that real npub holder chooses themselves).\n\nThat's the inevitable trade-off: something would need to be exposed in order for such a system to work, but privacy depends a lot on what exactly and who will receive the information. I think it's worth trying to build dating capabilities in Nostr, because the alternative is actually dating apps that do (or will start doing at any moment) the ID-based KYC cringe, which makes things worse for whoever doesn't care that much about privacy. I believe that people will go here if they notice a healthier alternative and if we market it in a particular way.\n\n\u003e We consist of less than 10 women\n\nWhile I don't ask for statistics that support this, hopefully non-literal, claim (I see who's naturally attracted here at the moment too), I still don't want it to be some self-fulfilling prophecy. Nostr is not just for male hackers and bitcoiners, and we affect who actually gets attracted to it. For example by making nostr:nprofile1qy2hwumn8ghj7un9d3shjtnyv9kh2uewd9hj7qgkwaehxw309aex2mrp0yhxg6t5w3hjuur4vghsqgxy5w039yffr4zjgpwd3hwhnrz29x3ctrzje5xcg0cldpfv79mg9cvxdh93 (I'm still impressed it hit the 10k TestFlight limit in a few hours!) or possibly some dating app too.\n\n\u003e If you have used any of the \"fringe\" but popular dating apps/websites you find one \"woman\" within 100 miles of you\n\n\u003e they simply don't work for the majority of users\n\nI hear it all the time, ah. I haven't been doing this since all the AI psychosis started in particular, but anyway, for some reason I was always lucky with these dating services. I found my significant other about 5 years ago using one of them, just as one of the examples. And I'm in my mid 30s right now. But that was not in the US.",
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