Happy Birthday! 🥳

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  "content": "Happy Birthday! 🥳\n\nI don't think anyone ever feels ready to have a child. Maybe some do, but they're probably not thinking it through. 🤣\n\nAs far as the inheritance, I can see it several ways.\n\nOne is that your father probably knew he was written out of the will, and has made his own decisions for wealth accordingly, so he's not missing something he expected. In every technical level, it's yours, and no one else's. It's not \"personal greed\" to want to put it to use. There is no moral conflict here. Your grandfather gave you a gift. There is no entitlement to offspring for inheritance.\n\nIf you feel guilt for having it, or see it as a symbol of a conflict between two paternal figures which you do not want to be a part of, maybe it is better to get rid if it. You could offer it to your father, give it to another family member, or just give it to me.\n\nYou could bring the issue up with your father, and get his opinion. He may not want it, due to the emotional aspect. He may take it, then will it to you. Who knows. People get weird when large sums are around.\n\nI learned early on in life that loved ones will turn ugly, and wage a life-long conflict, over inheritance.\n\nSince you're unsure what to do, it might be best to do nothing. Financially, its value will dwindle due to inflation (if it's just sitting in a bank account), but that can be remedied later. That's also better than losing it all on a bad decision, or losing loved ones due to a rash decision.\n\nIn the meantime, you could educate yourself about money. If you haven't read \"Rich Dad, Poor Dad\", that's a good intro to why most poor people stay poor, and how using expendable money to buy assets is how rich people stay rich. Find people that are successful with money, and ask questions. Find what is common between the responses you get.\n",
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