I got ghosted too. But I feel it's probably healthy to not b...

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I split with the other half at the end of February, seeing as we work at the same site (but different departments and shifts) I still see her occasion...

I got ghosted too. But I feel it's probably healthy to not be reminded of me.

If I were a new dude in a relationship with my ex. And she got hurt by me, that would show up if we still talked and the new dude may not like that.

Personally I don't mind my girl having friendships with dudes. But without explaining my nuanced view. There has to be boundaries.

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