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2026-04-02T17:41:09Z

It took me a while to process the experience and properly articulate the last sections of the article. And it may keep unpacking.

I must admit I've rarely participated as a peacemaker in whatever interpersonal conflicts in my life. I was usually more on aggressive side. Somehow I was lucky to be able to stay away from performing aggression in public online spaces.

Love the toughest conflicts; they are teachers. Love your opponent without losing yourself, if you still believe they are an opponent at all.

"If you hate a person, then you're defeated by them." (c) widely attributed to Confucius

Don't expect they will love you back, of course; do it for your own growth. Love is more than a naive, hippie-sh thing.

#grownostr #shadowwork #love

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